Salam..
Khamis - 9.09.2010 - sehari sebelum raya... motivation utk kerja takde langsung hari nie.. bukan apa.. dah terbayang2 raya.. n terbayang2 nak main mercun hari nie.. (ye ke??)... pepagi, dtg, siap kan kerja apa yg sepatutnya... tak sampai 1/2 jam... habis dah.. dah tu, buka la website.. yahoo la yg keluar dulu.. biasala.. so, this is the article dalam yahoo website hari nie.. tajuk menarik.. sebb "RED FLAG"... aku semenjak memulakan aktiviti mingguan aku, perkataan nie mmg dah selalu sgt dengar... dalam 1 hari boleh la dengar dekat lebih 10 kali...
so, just sharing the article for today.. - gambar tu yg paling aku suka.. wife pegang hubby, hubby pegang betina lain... (ps: betina for those yg tak pakai kepala otak suka kacau laki org... so, its not human la.. kan.. in short - bitch!! kan.. )
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If you never want to be blindsided by the words, "yes, I cheated," or, "sorry it's just not working out," read on.
1) "Sorry, it slipped my mind."
Forgetting to do something he’s always done for you—picking up your clothes from the cleaner, bringing home the wine—that's a sign you’re not as important as you used to be, says clinical psychiatrist Mark Goulston, MD, author of Just Listen and The 6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship.
2)I’m loving this wheatgrass.
Men are creatures of habit and any change in routine behavior is something to look twice at. Obviously when a guy who's not terribly ambitious becomes a workaholic, you want to make sure he's staying late to do business—not the business. “And if you married a slob, and he’s suddenly dressing better, it’s a pretty big clue there’s someone else,” Goulston says. Even more subtly, if a beer 'n' steak guy gets fanatic about wheatgrass, or takes a new interest in saving the penguins, make sure his passions don't have to do with some cute earth-loving lover.
3) What did you say?
“Men on the way out often seem distracted,” says psychotherapist Tessina, PhD, author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again. Withdrawal can be more serious than fighting—an indication he doesn’t care enough to engage. If you find yourself continually having to bring him back to the conversation, it may be because he’s preoccupied making exit plans.
4)I’m fine, Okay?
Both Goulston and Tessina point to irritability. “His answers become shorter,” Goulston says, “and if you try to have a longer conversation, he resists, or gets annoyed.”
5) You have such long toes.
Fine for someone who’s known you for a few weeks. Not fine for someone who’s known you a few years. If he's having revelations about your body now, perhaps he's been sampling (and comparing it to) someone else's.
6) You're no fun any more?
Even though you haven't changed a bit, he starts criticizing the very traits he once admired in you: Your "good work" ethic is "a drag"; your discipline with money, now "controlling." When a partner does a U-turn like this, he may be reevaluating what he wants in relationship. So any time you’re scratching your head asking yourself, What am I doing differently, start asking what he might be doing differently.
7) I can’t even think that far ahead.
If he stops talking about the future—vacation plans, building your dream house, having kids—it may be because he’s not seeing himself in yours.
8) Can you move over?
When the personal distance you’ve established between you as a couple—snuggling at a bar or walking side-by-side down the street together—widens, it could be a precursor to that nauseating phrase “I need my space.”
9) Oh, Charlie can’t make it for dinner.
When his best friend, who always used to hang out with you, becomes scarce or treats you more distantly, it’s likely he knows something you don’t want to know….
10) Snore.
And then there's the sex. Obviously he’s not going to be all over you like floor wax after ten years and a kid or two. Nor are you going to blaze with desire every time you catch his eye. But if sex, and interest in sex, drops out of your lives, says Tessina, you both need to take that seriously.
Is your man cheating? Have you been blindsided?******************************************************************
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